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T O P I C R E V I E Wpennylanehi there knowflakes!! how are you doing?I'm just curious about what kind of things can one do to hurt a gemini man in a relationship or in an argument about the relationship? what does make them feel slighted or humilliated?it's hard to figure out because they're always so dettached that it looks like they really don't care, but they've got to have a weak spot, right?I'd really like to know because i'm aware of my tendency to be blunt in this kind of situations, and I'd rather be careful.any input please?love,pennyBornUnderDioscuricall them boring and annoying. Dont pay attention to them, they do anything for attention,------------------Sun-GeminiMoon-ScorpioASC-Libracomica23hi ^_^ hmm my guess would be, maybe not being able to understand each other through communication? maybe not being able to communicate or understand the others can be evil for them..Lucia23They're hurt when you ignore them. Or when you genuinely move on. MUSTANGI have a feeling you really do want to hurt him, not avoid it.Seriously, ignore their chatter, it will make them insane. Also, call them stupid and predictable. Don't laugh at their jokes, etc. This advice would work with any sign, however. I mean, seriously, I'd leave if someone did this stuff to me repeatedly, or even once depending on what stage the relationship was in. FYI (just in case you're going to try to pizz him off): I would be able to tell if someone were doing it just to get a rise out of me - that is always simple to spot, and it really gets on my nerves, because it's so dysfunctional and sadistic.Initially, it will annoy me if I realize someone is purposely trying to pizz me off, but I will eventually just stop being pizzed, and view them as the pathetic pawns of their emotions that they really are, and then I will either: 1)laugh at them, or 2) just not care, or 3) both. (Three is my favorite.)Word to the wise, just in case you're going to try and hurt him....you'll just end up looking like an azz. ------------------Sun Aqua, Moon Sagg, Asc TaurusDulce LunaEven I could've told you this: just give them the silent treatment (this actually goes for most air signs). Of course, I only done this to my gemini stepmother who talked smack about me,my mother, and my sister to her friends. Silly her, she forgot that my brother was listening in. Other than that, I usually get along well with geminis.ThethirdbenjaminAs a gemini male I say BornUnderDioscuriadvise as the best so far. BornUnderDioscuri,not all will do everything to get attention... I don't seek attention myself.pennylanehi guys!thank you all for your replies. some of it was pretty much what I figured. but still geminis are quite hard for me to understand. have a great weekend!PldoreeLinda, How can I make a Gemini to come back after months of disappearance?Scorpio here and had known my Gemini man for a lil bit of more than 2 yrs. i fallen for him when we first met but i always play hard to get. Our relationship had been off and on due to his dual nature, he likes to withdraw or completely disappear himself away for a long time and then make a come back. I wont consider myself possesive or jealous of some sorts but i admit i like him to bring or share me his feelings/ emotions out to me. I guessed i drove him away lately as i got a little serious in which i shouldnt be! Thats cus i never knew this much of a gemini, not until i read more and more of his air sign here and there. Please tell me, how can i make him to come back after 8-9 wks of dissapearance as i really want to see him and celebrate my bday with, next month (nov 2012). I love him a lot and can't wait to have him back. But being that he is a Gemini.. I can't make it sound I am desperate for him or being clingy! So how should I approach him back and make him see or talk to me, again! Curious BullMy brother is a gemini sun and gemini moon - and the thing that annoys him most of all is not being fully heard out in a discussion and if he believes your mind is made up and you are just humoring him. He wants his ideas to be heard and then properly considered. He doesn't care if you end up agreeing or not. In fact, he likes a hearty discussion if you don't. But he will shake his head and walk away if your mind is closed from the start. quote:Originally posted by pennylane:hi there knowflakes!! how are you doing?I'm just curious about what kind of things can one do to hurt a gemini man in a relationship or in an argument about the relationship? what does make them feel slighted or humilliated?it's hard to figure out because they're always so dettached that it looks like they really don't care, but they've got to have a weak spot, right?I'd really like to know because i'm aware of my tendency to be blunt in this kind of situations, and I'd rather be careful.any input please?love,pennyGabbyIf you really want to know how to get to someone, do to them what they do to you when they are trying to hurt you! We all subconsciously hurt ppl in the same way that we can be hurt, because we go with what we know! We are completely unaware we are giving away the ways to deeply cut us as we try to deeply cut you! Sadly, its just our nature, the good ones will try to overcome it!Gabby quote:Originally posted by Pldoree:Linda, How can I make a Gemini to come back after months of disappearance?Scorpio here and had known my Gemini man for a lil bit of more than 2 yrs. i fallen for him when we first met but i always play hard to get. Our relationship had been off and on due to his dual nature, he likes to withdraw or completely disappear himself away for a long time and then make a come back. I wont consider myself possesive or jealous of some sorts but i admit i like him to bring or share me his feelings/ emotions out to me. I guessed i drove him away lately as i got a little serious in which i shouldnt be! Thats cus i never knew this much of a gemini, not until i read more and more of his air sign here and there. Please tell me, how can i make him to come back after 8-9 wks of dissapearance as i really want to see him and celebrate my bday with, next month (nov 2012). I love him a lot and can't wait to have him back. But being that he is a Gemini.. I can't make it sound I am desperate for him or being clingy! So how should I approach him back and make him see or talk to me, again! Gemini's pretty much do what they want to do, there is no making them do anything! If you want him around for your birthday you need to attract him to you by planning something exciting that you know he wouldnt want to miss and dont make it seem like something special meant to draw him to you....got to be casual and then be very out going with everyone and flirty and let him see what hes missing.astrofan123yes everyone has a weak spot. I agree with first reply. sagitootinous quote:Originally posted by Lucia23:They're hurt when you ignore them. Or when you genuinely move on. yep! my dad is a Gemini and we have a really bad relationship. he has recently been trying to connect with me, but I've moved on. he tells my mother that I am hurting him by ignoring him, but there is no way I'm going to accept him again.also, when I hit him with the truth he seems to hurt from that. -yes, yes, I'm new, lol.RandallIgnoring him.------------------"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clarkaquagembaby-Moving on faster than they do. Though this could be said about other signs.-Having loads of fun without them. -Telling them that you have nothing to say to them after they just spent half an hour spilling out everything on their mind (which is also their heart) lolI also agree w/ Curious Bull. To not have their ideas heard. watermonkeyWell this is purely subjective on gemini males :In work - ideas not being listened/taken seriouslyIn love - Well its really complicated, we do get "temporary" hurt but its more of like a challenge to us(dont know if it counts) if our partner leaves us be it genuine or not and we feel the need to get them back, also because of the stimulation we derive from winning the affection of someone's heart but once reach our target we feel indequate and whatever that comes ahead of us becomes a new challenge/stimulation(thus the sayings of geminis are flirts/players).Also a common misconception is to make a gemini jealous - we dont get jealous although it seems like it but we are just too rational to get jealous.Another point to note is that geminis recover very fast from any emotional setback especially love the other party may take months but for us days.I am a Gemini Ascendant,Sun,Mercury and Venus.------------------Just a water monkey gemini guyLondongirl8 quote:Originally posted by watermonkey:In love - Well its really complicated, we do get "temporary" hurt but its more of like a challenge to us(dont know if it counts) if our partner leaves us be it genuine or not and we feel the need to get them back, also because of the stimulation we derive from winning the affection of someone's heart but once reach our target we feel indequate and whatever that comes ahead of us becomes a new challenge/stimulation(thus the sayings of geminis are flirts/players).Also a common misconception is to make a gemini jealous - we dont get jealous although it seems like it but we are just too rational to get jealous.Another point to note is that geminis recover very fast from any emotional setback especially love the other party may take months but for us days.I am a Gemini Ascendant,Sun,Mercury and Venus.[/B]Absolutely correct! My sister is Gemini and once she moves on she's done! The only reason she'll get back with someone is to prove to herself that she CAN, then she's off again. I've never dated a Gemini but if I did I wouldn't look back once we've broken up.I'm Aquarius
------------------Sun-GeminiMoon-ScorpioASC-Libra
Seriously, ignore their chatter, it will make them insane.
Also, call them stupid and predictable. Don't laugh at their jokes, etc.
This advice would work with any sign, however. I mean, seriously, I'd leave if someone did this stuff to me repeatedly, or even once depending on what stage the relationship was in.
FYI (just in case you're going to try to pizz him off): I would be able to tell if someone were doing it just to get a rise out of me - that is always simple to spot, and it really gets on my nerves, because it's so dysfunctional and sadistic.
Initially, it will annoy me if I realize someone is purposely trying to pizz me off, but I will eventually just stop being pizzed, and view them as the pathetic pawns of their emotions that they really are, and then I will either: 1)laugh at them, or 2) just not care, or 3) both.
(Three is my favorite.)
Word to the wise, just in case you're going to try and hurt him....you'll just end up looking like an azz.
------------------Sun Aqua, Moon Sagg, Asc Taurus
Other than that, I usually get along well with geminis.
BornUnderDioscuri,
not all will do everything to get attention... I don't seek attention myself.
How can I make a Gemini to come back after months of disappearance?
Scorpio here and had known my Gemini man for a lil bit of more than 2 yrs. i fallen for him when we first met but i always play hard to get. Our relationship had been off and on due to his dual nature, he likes to withdraw or completely disappear himself away for a long time and then make a come back. I wont consider myself possesive or jealous of some sorts but i admit i like him to bring or share me his feelings/ emotions out to me. I guessed i drove him away lately as i got a little serious in which i shouldnt be! Thats cus i never knew this much of a gemini, not until i read more and more of his air sign here and there. Please tell me, how can i make him to come back after 8-9 wks of dissapearance as i really want to see him and celebrate my bday with, next month (nov 2012). I love him a lot and can't wait to have him back. But being that he is a Gemini.. I can't make it sound I am desperate for him or being clingy! So how should I approach him back and make him see or talk to me, again!
quote:Originally posted by pennylane:hi there knowflakes!! how are you doing?I'm just curious about what kind of things can one do to hurt a gemini man in a relationship or in an argument about the relationship? what does make them feel slighted or humilliated?it's hard to figure out because they're always so dettached that it looks like they really don't care, but they've got to have a weak spot, right?I'd really like to know because i'm aware of my tendency to be blunt in this kind of situations, and I'd rather be careful.any input please?love,penny
quote:Originally posted by Pldoree:Linda, How can I make a Gemini to come back after months of disappearance?Scorpio here and had known my Gemini man for a lil bit of more than 2 yrs. i fallen for him when we first met but i always play hard to get. Our relationship had been off and on due to his dual nature, he likes to withdraw or completely disappear himself away for a long time and then make a come back. I wont consider myself possesive or jealous of some sorts but i admit i like him to bring or share me his feelings/ emotions out to me. I guessed i drove him away lately as i got a little serious in which i shouldnt be! Thats cus i never knew this much of a gemini, not until i read more and more of his air sign here and there. Please tell me, how can i make him to come back after 8-9 wks of dissapearance as i really want to see him and celebrate my bday with, next month (nov 2012). I love him a lot and can't wait to have him back. But being that he is a Gemini.. I can't make it sound I am desperate for him or being clingy! So how should I approach him back and make him see or talk to me, again!
Gemini's pretty much do what they want to do, there is no making them do anything! If you want him around for your birthday you need to attract him to you by planning something exciting that you know he wouldnt want to miss and dont make it seem like something special meant to draw him to you....got to be casual and then be very out going with everyone and flirty and let him see what hes missing.
quote:Originally posted by Lucia23:They're hurt when you ignore them. Or when you genuinely move on.
yep! my dad is a Gemini and we have a really bad relationship. he has recently been trying to connect with me, but I've moved on. he tells my mother that I am hurting him by ignoring him, but there is no way I'm going to accept him again.
also, when I hit him with the truth he seems to hurt from that.
-yes, yes, I'm new, lol.
------------------"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark
-Having loads of fun without them.
-Telling them that you have nothing to say to them after they just spent half an hour spilling out everything on their mind (which is also their heart) lol
I also agree w/ Curious Bull. To not have their ideas heard.
In work - ideas not being listened/taken seriously
In love - Well its really complicated, we do get "temporary" hurt but its more of like a challenge to us(dont know if it counts) if our partner leaves us be it genuine or not and we feel the need to get them back, also because of the stimulation we derive from winning the affection of someone's heart but once reach our target we feel indequate and whatever that comes ahead of us becomes a new challenge/stimulation(thus the sayings of geminis are flirts/players).Also a common misconception is to make a gemini jealous - we dont get jealous although it seems like it but we are just too rational to get jealous.Another point to note is that geminis recover very fast from any emotional setback especially love the other party may take months but for us days.
I am a Gemini Ascendant,Sun,Mercury and Venus.
------------------Just a water monkey gemini guy
quote:Originally posted by watermonkey:In love - Well its really complicated, we do get "temporary" hurt but its more of like a challenge to us(dont know if it counts) if our partner leaves us be it genuine or not and we feel the need to get them back, also because of the stimulation we derive from winning the affection of someone's heart but once reach our target we feel indequate and whatever that comes ahead of us becomes a new challenge/stimulation(thus the sayings of geminis are flirts/players).Also a common misconception is to make a gemini jealous - we dont get jealous although it seems like it but we are just too rational to get jealous.Another point to note is that geminis recover very fast from any emotional setback especially love the other party may take months but for us days.I am a Gemini Ascendant,Sun,Mercury and Venus.[/B]
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Absolutely correct! My sister is Gemini and once she moves on she's done! The only reason she'll get back with someone is to prove to herself that she CAN, then she's off again. I've never dated a Gemini but if I did I wouldn't look back once we've broken up.
I'm Aquarius
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